Singled out

Hello all you boys and girls together and separate

I saw a headline that Miley Cyrus is happy to be single. My first thought was isn't she supposed to be single? I mean she is only 16! Then I thought about it and I suppose she could have meant just a boyfriend. Apparently she was in a relationship, now is not in one, doesn't want to be in one, except at 4 am. I am confused.

It got me thinking. People are getting married later in life. I think it used to be at 18 or at late 20s. Now the earliest is late 20s and sometime later than that. However, it seems that relationships are entered into at earlier ages. I am by no means an expert nor do I pay attention to society, but if we want a 16 year old in a relationship then something weird is going on.

I think what they need to do, lawmakers since they want all these laws, is bring back arranged marriages. The government or somebody could get a lot of money. It would bring the job of matchmaker. I think there are probably people who get paid big bucks to do this. We somewhat have it now with reality shows like the Bachelor. But the success rate is not high. Now you see the ring, now you don't.

I think that Americans would not like arranged marriages though. We like to choice what we do and especially the person we go out with. Although I wonder how much choice we really have? I know people try to go out with their same type. Sometimes it works, but often it is the opposite attracts. I mean look at the doofy guy with the beautiful woman. Insert photo of Wendy and me. I guess it is the differences that bring out the balance.

Well whether you are one or two that become one the key is to be happy. I am not saying you should not try to improve your relationships because good relationships are the key to being happy.