I am not really a gifted communicator. When I try to explain something, the person has no idea what I am talking about and I think I become confused also. I know that communication is the key to getting things done. People who can communicate well are the ways who are successful.
This is just my observation, so it can be wrong, but men tend to talk in hand signals. I guess women are stereotyped as being more verbal. Have you noticed that in most conversations men will stand there and point at something? It is really apparent when working on something. We, men, will just hold out our hand. I guess the thought is that the item will appear there we want.
I think that people, men and women, are guilty of thinking that everyone knows what a person is thinking. Our conversation patterns follow a path of assumed knowledge. Just because it is in our head does not mean it is in someone else's head.
When I have my hand out, I usually just want one thing.
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